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Laws of Attraction Part IVHow to Compete Against the Alpha Male and Get the Woman You Want In all species in nature, the female is attracted to the alpha male because she wants offspring that will have the best chance for survival in the world in which they will grow up. These females are not looking for deep, meaningful, long term relationships, but just a quick affair, that will lead to pregnancy. This is a convenient situation for alpha males as they usually have multiple females available to produce offspring and even though he protects and defends all of them, he doesn't give one individual female focused attention. Human alpha males prefer to live this way too. Although he will be undeniably loyal to those he defends and will go out of his way not to cause harm to them, he not be able to give any of them his heart and soul or a long term commitment. The woman that can capture the undivided attention of an alpha male truly has something special to offer. Even though the alpha male seems to have an advantage over the mere regular men, there are women who desire other aspects of life that the alpha cannot provide. It is this group of regular men that hold the key to taking the alpha male's control away in choosing the female they want. A non-alpha male must be very aware when looking for mate to have a relationship with. He must be searching for a long-term relationship but not have the expectation of finding one. He must be careful not rush in. A marriage proposal on the second date is assuming too much. A woman who has made the decision not to be in a relationship with and alpha male will be very cautious in determining whether or not the non-alpha male can provide what she wants and needs. Because she knew that she would not get the emotional support from an alpha male that she needs, she will be looking especially for that and the non-alpha must be able to supply it; that and a secure financial future as well. If a non-alpha male is not going to be able to give the woman what she needs, then he should avoid getting involved as he will only damage his reputation with other potential female mates. Since the emotional wants and needs of the woman have been considered and they can be looked after, we now need to focus on how to capture the attention of the woman. If you were an alpha male you would have the advantage going into the competition for the woman, but there other things that you can use to gain ground. Women are attracted to a capable man. Put yourself in a position that she can see you doing what you do best, so that you will appear competent - an essential quality. If you are in a position where you can't show competence easily, like approaching a woman sitting on the side of a pool, at least show confidence - another essential quality. Here are a few don’ts and do's: Don't - use any thing that even closely resembles a pick-up line - slur your speech - have any spit on your face - get food or drink on yourself or the woman Do: - show your pearly whites (teeth) but not in a fake way - be natural - talk normally - make eye contact - Start a conversation. This is not always easy, but if you stick to a topic that relates to the situation that you are, you should do fine - escort her to her vehicle or taxi at the end of the evening - Get her phone number - Use her phone number - call her You will soon have her forgetting all about the alpha male if you build a relationship based on what you have in common and a mutual respect for each other. You can be the man! |
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